Have you ever come to a point in your life when you feel like you have no control. That is how I feel on a daily basis. I love being a personal trainer, in fact, my job is one of the only thing making me feel happy besides my family. The last few years have been hard causing me to feel overly stressed and feeling depressed. I will admit I am an overly dramatic person and I’m way too hard on my self. But is it so bad to want to be successful, I know I not the only one who feels this way. Being honest with ourselves is one of the hardest things to do. Knowing when to ask for help or even making a drastic change in life so that you can quiet your mental demand that consumes our lives. What is that is feeding the demands is it fear of failing, fear of being out of control, or is it something holding you back.
Falling is my fear. Every motivational speaker I ever heard says you only fail if you stop trying. This might be true failure is scary no one likes to fail, but without failure how would we learn. With my business, I was trying so hard to make it work and doing it the wrong way. I was so focused on making my business like other fitness business that I failed and its okay. I learned from my mistakes and I will try again.
When you come to a point in your life that you feel trapped alone, scared of the unknown. Just remember you are not alone there are people in your life you care about you, who want to help. Life can be hard so you have to be tough its okay to ask for help or seek help. In no way does this make you week.